You don’t Resist Change but You Resist Being Changed.
One who want to change for better does not need any motivation or explanation. For the One who does not want to improve, any amount of explanation would be a waste.
Case 1: If you want to change a someone for their own benefit, you may or may not become successful. And there is minimum or no harm to you in this regard. Here you may offer your services, you might have to dedicate your time and effort. Finally it is completely in the hands of the other person to be disciplined, consistent and committed to become successful in their endeavors. They will change only if they want. You cannot change others just because you want to. People generally are highly resistant to change even if it is beneficial to them. In this case if the person is unsuccessful, there is not much lose or damage to you as you. You may feel sad for that person and you may be disappointed for giving your time and effort.
Case 2: You don’t want to change a person. But that person is negative and toxic in nature. In this case, if you stick with that person long enough without sensing their bad attitude and intentions, then it is highly likely that you could get demotivated and go off track. So beware of negative people.
Leaders and successful people may help you, support you, encourage you, guide you and even show you a direction. Neutral people may not be of much help to you but they would not drag you down. However, people with negative attitude would not only demoralize you but drag you down to their level of thinking.
Beware of negativity around you,
This applies to the kind of information we access in this age of internet and social media. This applies to kind of news we are watching. This applies to the kind of content we are watching, reading and listening to. This applies to the kind of friend circle we have. This applies to the kind of thoughts we are running in our minds. This applies to who we are following and who we are subscribing to.
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