Top self-sabotaging behaviours

  • Fearful of everything.
  • Not taking risks.
  • Unhealthy habits.
  • Ignoring wellbeing of our body and mind.
  • Neglecting relationships.
  • Falling prey to distractions.
  • Playing victim card.
  • Lacking self-awareness.
  • Not questioning our thoughts.
  • Not assessing our old beliefs which are not working no more.
  • Not being critical of ourselves.
  • Not being critical of the things that we are happening around you.
  • Casually accepting the information from various sources.
  • By being a drifter in life and accepting anything that comes along instead of having some direction in life.
  • Relying too much of schools instead of taking time to educate and develop our kids.
  • Spending time on matters which we do not have any control like politics, sports, movies etc.,
  • Comparing with other people’s lives.
  • Equating happiness with instant gratifications.
  • Equating wealth with only money not with health, relationships, passion, and purpose in life.
  • Equating our worth with materials we own instead of building a strong character.
  • Not investing time on things, we love to do and feel passionate about.
  • Not having a 10 year or 15 year or 20-year outlook.
  • Not understanding the fact that we gain significance only by being of service to others and adding value to others lives.
  • Being part of a community and contributing something.
  • Complaining.
  • Blaming.
  • Giving excuses.
  • Trying to please others.

~Praveen Jada

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