Always choose to be in the process and pursue an infinite goal which cannot be achieved in this lifetime. An infinite mindset always trumps a finite mindset. Having a goal and achieving it is finite. It gives you instant pleasure when you win something. If the process of achieving something is a goal, then there is no end to the experience of winning.
As someone said “The man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination.”
Focusing and giving importance to the process of winning is more important than the victory. Because the journey to victory is the story that makes the victory so much sweeter.
You do not win by getting in shape. You win if you continue staying in shape and get fitter as you get older.
You do not win in business. You win by staying in the business and growing the business .
You do not win in marriage. You win by staying in the marriage and keep improving on the relationships.
Point of the game is to keep playing. You must love playing the game . You must love to be a player instead of winning the game. You win the game by staying in the the game and playing it long enough. This gives you more satisfaction of success in long term.
point of success is to do the things that make you successful. you can say you are winning in your own life in your own way if you are successful in doing things which you love and passionate about.
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