Author: Praveen Jada

The desire to feel good never ends—and that’s the source of all your problems. You seek love and validation because it doesn’t feel good to not be loved and validated. You seek money and status because it doesn’t feel good to worry about not having money and status. You seek happiness and peace because it […]

Relationships are the multipliers of life. Good relationships make other good things even better. Bad relationships make other bad things even worse. Who you choose to spend time with likely has a greater long-term impact on your health, wealth, and happiness than almost any other decision you make. Yet, most people will put more conscious […]

It’s not people’s job to show you what’s interesting or great about themselves. It’s your job to find it. This is life, not a sales convention. Curiosity is the cure to social anxiety. When you’re focused on discovering who they are, you will stop worrying about what they think about who you are. ~Praveen Jada […]

What you hate in others is usually what you hate most in yourself. The people who drive you crazy do so because they reflect back at you the worst aspects of yourself that you have either tried to deny or overcome. We judge others by the same standards which we judge ourselves. If we judge […]

The most important things in life—trust, respect, love, happiness—must be painstakingly earned over time, but can be quickly and easily destroyed. As Warren Buffett once said, “It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it.” One of the simplest mindset shifts you can make to find greater success is simply […]

Approach life advice not like immutable laws but rather like trying on clothes. Some advice will fit you well and flatter you. Other advice will not. Advice that may work great on one person may work terribly on the next. Pick and choose your advice to suit your personality and the occasion. Feel free to […]

Haters occur in proportion to admiration. Doing anything notable will generate both positive and negative reactions of similar intensity. It’s impossible to be a life-changing presence to some people without simultaneously being a complete joke to others. The best response to hate is to simply improve yourself so much that the hater’s criticisms become self-evidently […]

Luck doesn’t just happen, it’s created. You can do things to increase the odds of serendipity. Meeting more people makes you lucky. Learning more skills makes you lucky. Being willing to fail makes you lucky. Offering to help others more often makes you lucky. How often do you blame your circumstances on bad luck? What […]

Three questions determine 99% of the happiness in your life: 1. What am I working on and why? 2. Who am I spending time with and why? 3. How well am I treating my body and why? Everything else is noise. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer

The only way to become more successful than most people is to be willing to do something most people aren’t willing to do. If you simply do what everyone else has already done, you will be rewarded with the same mediocre results everyone else has already gotten. The only model for success is to avoid […]

Competence is how good you are when there is something to gain. Character is how good you are when there is nothing to gain. People will reward you for competence. But people will love you for your character. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer

When the war starts, the truth dies ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer

  A study that was conducted on effect of women for going foreign interview so they were told that in order to analyse the impact of the way a person look and there success in the interview the receptors said that we are going to put a scar on your face and your going to […]

Lot of people are casual and do things based on feelings. They replace what actually works and true with what sounds good and how they feel about the topic in question. People vote based on how they feel about the person who is contesting. We became addicted to our feelings and being casual in life. […]

The wise man listen to the music and the fool listens to the noise. The magic and meaning of your life lies in the work that you are avoiding to pursue. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer