Apple does not fall far from the tree . Like father like son.
Our kids watch us while they grow. They keep absorbing data from their immediate environment. Children learn many things from parents consciously and subconsciously.
So if you imagine your life to be a movie, then you definitely would like to be a hero of your own movie called life. Be a hero and do heroic things. Your kids want to see a hero in you. Be a hero for your kids. By trying to be a hero in your own way, you are becoming better person and reaching higher standards. Your kids would need those higher standards and expectations to be their best selves. Be the best version of yourself and be on the path of continuous improvement. Be a tough role model for your kids to look up to and for them to imbibe the heroic traits.
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