It is a common human mentality that we wish others to have the same kind of feelings or things that we ourselves are experiencing . We intend to pull others to a better position and wish to see others improving in their lives when we ourselves are doing well in our lives, we wish others to have happy family relationships when and we are enjoying our personal relationships, we wish others to have a great professional life when we ourselves are doing exceptional in our job. When we are filled with optimism and hopeful about better tomorrow, then we wish to fill the world with positivity and kindness.
Similarly, if you we are mentally upset and having a lot of pent up negative emotions, then one might not necessarily wish others must suffer but at the same time one might not be in a condition to think of betterment of the rest of the world. If one is unhealthy, having financial troubles, been through job loss, suffering from diseases, dealing with relationship problems – they would be focused more on themselves to get out the difficulties and recover from them as soon as possible before hoping well for others.
To summarize this general mindset, we see the world around us in the same state as we are. And as an extension to this we wish the world to experience what we are experiencing. The way we express this feeling and emotions could be positive or negative.
When we fill our minds with happiness, positivity, gratitude and hope we see the things around us with great care and value. When we ourselves are overflowing with happiness, health, wealth, positivity, inspirations, joy we wish others also experience the bliss and we would be in a position to share our gifts wit others.
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