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You must develop the generosity, self compassion and self consideration to accept the bad news. Many times it is a bad news that you would lose the war but it’s good news that the war is over at least.

~Praveen Jada

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First and foremost is to create problems, issues and conflicts in the society and then be the only people to resolve that issue because you have created the problem with the solution in mind. Sometimes it the only person or the organization to resolve the issue to become the protector and saviour.

When people are in the state of fear, scared and afraid, uncertain of their feature they would not have the rationality and executive decision making skills, their critical thinking faculties would not work. In this state of mind, people will be desperate to get some control back, to someone to give a solution, submit to anything that gives instant relief from the anxiety, they take any option to get out of uncertainty, they will be willing to give their autonomy for a sense of temporary security.

Historically people who rile and elite power class take advantage of these tumultuous circumstance. People who are power hungry and money minded want people to be dumb and distracted. There is more business in making people complaisant and make them accept the way things are being run. There is a big problem if people start to think for themselves, become self-reliant and develop critical thinking skills. Our established systems don’t want people to question and want the people to comply.

Many of the situations in the world are create in such a way that there won’t be any hope left for a common person. They take away faith in themselves in our future so that we are compelled to feel useless. In desperate times there won’t be any mental strength left for smart and critical questions. Ultimately if we analyze, it distills down to making us dependent on something and make consumers of something whether we agree or not.

~Praveen Jada

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Who are you when you strip off all the things that you are doing right now to run your life. What can you be and can offer if you do not have any of the privileges and gifts of life. What strengths do you have and honing if you lose the job that you are doing. What can you do if you do not have money that you are earning currently.

What thoughts do you get when you are lying on bed at night?
What do you think about yourself when you are by yourself?
What is the kind of conversation you have when you are sitting all alone by yourself?
What do you do when you face your fears and traumas that are keeping you slave of your own mind? Do you pass the buck, blame, complain, play victim card and feel entitled or do you feel grateful for the resources you have in life and take full responsibility for transforming yourself?
What do you want to do if you are guaranteed success and money is not an issue?
What do you do when no one is at home?
How do you spend time if you have constant income guaranteed to live?
How can you spend your time if you do not have smart phone in your hand?

~Praveen Jada

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There is money and business only when i person feels helpless, hopeless and useless. There is business when people are dependent on the system rather than reliable on their decisions.

Ideally with the advancement of medical technology, modern drugs, latest diagnostic and treatment methodologies, healthcare sector, pharmacy companies and health insurance companies must see a dip in their profits year by year. But that did not and does not happen as every business is based on giving instant temporary treatments but not permanent fixes by detecting root causes. Every sector related health and wellness will not make money only if there are more number of sick people who are perpetually dependent and repeated customers.

There is business only when a person believes they can do nothing , believes cannot control their health and fitness, believes that they do not have control over themselves, believes that they cannot take care of themselves, they cannot take their own decisions and make healthy choices.

~Praveen Jada

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Sometimes I feel that it is fun to watch and observe different personalities and character traits in ourselves. If you are self conscious and self aware, we would definitely know how we react, how we behave, what decisions we take, the way we choose in different circumstances in life. But the same time if you are not a very conscious then you are casual drifter in life you wouldn’t have observed anything and you would believe that everything happens because of external circumstances and nothing happens because of your beliefs, values, thoughts and internal biological environment. Now if you believe that everything happens because of you and take accountability for your life then you can actually observe your subconscious brain forcing you and compelling you to do so certain things that actually are not in your best interest but those patterns are created for your protection at various stages of life.

If you can observe your behaviours with awareness as different people and have a conversation with them, then you may negotiate a deal to do things that you need to do rather then craving for instant pleasure and running away from pain.

~Praveen Jada

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In this age of instant gratification, comparison, competition and envy that comes from social media it is an immense power and strength to not do anything and remain calm when you have everything. That means if you can take the decision and remain still despite having the resources to indulge in instant gratification and pleasures, you will be in an authority position and wealthy. When you make the choice to sit through boredom and pain of watching the temptations in front of you and do nothing , it is a deep happiness. Shallow happiness is falling for any temptations and inability to resist that is not good for you.

~Praveen Jada

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King Solomon is synonymous with wisdom and great advice. But in his personal affairs, he was incredibly shortsighted. His story has given rise to the concept of Solomon’s paradox. Studies have proven that we are much better at giving rational and useful advice to other people rather than ourselves — we’re much more expert when we’re distanced from a situation.

King Solomon of ancient Israel was known the world over for his wisdom and fair justice. Yet, in his own life, he was notoriously shambolic. His poor parenting gave rise to one of the cruelest tyrants in the Bible, his son, Rehoboam, who turned Judah into a pit of abomination and sin. Solomon had many pagan wives and concubines, with a likely host of illegitimate children. He was profligate and extravagant, and gave little thought to the temperate, sensible life. For all his sagacity when it came to others’ affairs, Solomon was woefully myopic when it came to his own.

In 2014, a paper from psychologists Igor Grossman and Ethan Kross introduced the idea of Solomon’s paradox. Their research revealed two things. One was that people “display wiser reasoning… about another person’s problems compared with their own.” In other words, there’s a widespread social cognitive bias that means we are much better at dealing with other people’s lives and problems than our own.

Solomon’s paradox teaches us, then, that if we want to give ourselves good advice, we ought to take a step back. If we want to make positive steps in improving who we are, we need to treat our own lives like we would characters in a book. Talk to yourself like you are giving an advice or suggestion to your loved ones or a best friend. What would you say to them if they are facing the same situation as you are.

~Praveen Jada

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You need to run your health using the metrics and number in the blood panel and not run your health by the way you feel. Stop using your feeling to realize that something is wrong in your body. Sometimes symptoms appear too late and damage is already done. It is really important to keep all the parameters of vitamins and minerals at optimum levels to make our organs powerful.

Having low vitamin D3 levels and B12 levels for long time leads to a lot of health issues related to brain, heart, liver, thyroid, hormonal balance in older ages. You will be surprised when you find out the damage in the body but the damage started slowly many years back.

~Praveen Jada

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I think we have been programmed from long time like from aftermath of world wars that we that we are supposed to take loans to lead a happy and rich life. We need things to be happy and be respected and valued in society. Material things are very important and it is essential to take loans to possess the good and services that you may actually not need.

Unfortunately all this phenomenon is created by the banking and finance system in cahoots with real estate to allure people into thinking that are missing something in their lives and took advantage of scarcity mindset of people. The invisible marketing force of the industry is so compelling that we submit to our primitive instincts to jump into getting into a debt for 20 years or more for a piece of land or house.

~Praveen Jada

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What makes one extraordinary is the ability to do ordinary things over a long period of time. You are extraordinary if you could do ordinary stuff when everyone around his going crazy and directionless. It is one’s ability to do normal things when everyone around you is not doing the bear minimum which could lead to outstanding results in the long run.

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Try to explain why you are doing what you are doing to others or in front of a mirror. While explaining and at the end of end of explanation , if you not convinced with yourself with your explanation, then you do not believe in what you are doing strong enough and you are just doing it due some of external motivator. That means there are high chances that you might lose your interest and commitment at any moment due some external circumstances and events in life.

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There are many ways to get rich but there are very few ways to stay rich. So if we just drill down to top most reasons to stay rich is to be little bit of frugality, cynicism and paranoia.

~Praveen Jada

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Money can definitely reduce the pain and anxiety in life but money cannot give you happiness and fulfilment.

For example money can give you the opportunity to get the best of the treatments when you are sick but money cannot make you healthy, fit, strong. Money can heal disease but money cannot prevent disease. Money can get you married but money may not help you having healthy and quality relationships. Money cannot help you get true friends. Money cannot get you to do your dream job that you are passionate about.

~Praveen Jada

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You must have scars. We get scar tissue when physical wounds heal. When you have scars, that means that you been wounded and you healed from it and you recovered. Once you heal from the hurts of life , means that now you have better strength and confidence. That you have overcome the difficult situation or a bad event in life and you have the scars of it’s memory to behave in a better way to handle similar situations in future. If you have a physical or a mental scar, that means that whenever you look at it you remember the mistakes that you did or the events that happened that made you go through hell at the same time you can also remember that you are the person who came out on the other side stronger and more courageous.

~Praveen Jada

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• People respect you as much as you respect yourself.
• You give power to those who you blame and complain about.
• The quality of your relationships impacts quality of your life.
• People are not thinking about you as much as you think they are
• nothing meaningful in life is easy.
• Love occurs in proportion to your willingness to get hurt.
• Competence breeds confidence confidence breeds competence.
• Be slow to judge and form and opinion about others because everybody is doing their best.

~Praveen Jada

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