Having many priorities in a day is equal to having no priority at all.Having more choices may dilute decisions making. Having less choices will allow us to choose the best stuff available with more contentment.Having more things and larger things need more maintenance.Having more comforts and luxuries may not necessarily lead to more happiness.Having more […]
Category: Health
Shallow fun vs deep fun
shallow fun and deep fun. example – shallow fun is eating ice cream the moment you see it and deep fun is find pride in stopping yourself from eating ice cream. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
It is hard to find what you want in life
The hardest thing is not doing what you want and desire in life but the hardest thing is knowing what you want and desire in life. Because once you know what you want in life and who you want to be, then you have to do what is required to become who you want in […]
When everyone is sick, we no longer considered it as disease
As Jiddu Krishnamurthy said “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society”. In the current society where majority of the people are sick inside, where living with chronic disease and disorders has become normal and bodies adopt with compensations mechanisms to somehow save us which in turn create […]
Something that is difficult to attain may not be of value to you
Just because something is difficult to obtain doesn’t necessarily mean that it is valuable to you. For example, the things that one owns or the places that one goes may be difficult to get like expensive watches or paintings, mansions, high end cars, jets or yachts or even beautiful women, costly furniture etc,. When we […]
Historically more harm is done with positive intent
~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
The folly of our brain
“The breeding ground for misbelief is stress.” “When you think about corrosive, you say people are different on the other side of this and there’s really no no going back” “Every element of our psychology is attacked to get us down to this finalist misbelief.” “Cognitive dissonance is about, if we act in a certain […]
Freedom comes with self-awareness and discipline
Freedom is nothing but as the word itself means independent, self-reliable, responsible, disciplined. You witness true freedom when you are responsible for yourself and take control of the things that you can control. You experience freedom when you are strict with yourself and be kind to others. You feel the power of freedom when you […]
Help others with pain to reduce your pain
When you are suffering, when you are wounded and hurt inside, one of the best ways to pass through the difficult phase is to identify similar people who are hurt and suffering like you are and try to support them to get better. In this process you will see various options to redeem yourself. ~Praveen […]
How to start in non-cooperating environment
How to jump start in an environment of back stabbers and untrustworthy people , it is to move ahead by taking small steps with calculated risks. There is no way other than to be decent and sticking to your ground while understanding their nature. When you understand their patterns of behaviour and when it the […]
Sometimes the most useful thing you can do… is nothing
Sometimes it’s the constant desire to “fix things” that keeps breaking them in the first place. Sometimes the most useful thing you can do… is nothing. Coincidentally, this is usually also the hardest thing to do. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
Make kindness as default behaviour
Starting point should always be cooperation, grace, decency, kindness . generally the world around you responds to you the same way. If you sense that things are not working as expected due to bad nature of the people around you then you need to course correct and change the direction or else you are going […]
Real pain is the avoidance of pain
Fear doesn’t control us by dominating our emotions. It controls us by quietly convincing us that our comfort is more important than happiness. The only real risk is taking no risks. The only real failure is having no failures. The only real pain is the avoidance of pain. When in your life have you chosen […]
Change your choices to change outcome
If you are able to think then you are able to make different choices. If you are able to make different choices, you are able to improve. If you are able to improve, with enough time, you are able to overcome anything. Is there something in your life that you have allowed yourself to believe […]
The desire to feel good never ends
The desire to feel good never ends—and that’s the source of all your problems. You seek love and validation because it doesn’t feel good to not be loved and validated. You seek money and status because it doesn’t feel good to worry about not having money and status. You seek happiness and peace because it […]