Most of us are addicted to comfort, embracing a victim’s mentality and unaware of our true potential. The truth is we all make habitual , self-limiting choices that keep devaluing our inner strength.
It is only you and you are the culprit if you are postponing your dreams, passions and love towards something or someone. You are missing out on opportunities of life and failing to improve your life if you put blame on traffic, because of air pollution, corruption, because you don’t have time, because you have health problems, because you have a busy job, because you have family burdens, responsibilities, and things to take care of and so on. If you think this way, you are in victim mentality.
Hours and days evaporate like anything just like a drop of sanitizer of your hands. It is ok to be nervous and feel stressful because you are not utilizing time efficiently as long as it inspires to you to take time seriously and make gradual improvements.
Whether it’s a career goal ( pursuing passion parallel to job, start a business ), a lifestyle goal ( becoming healthy, getting fitter and stronger, get more active ), or an athletic one ( run my first 5K , 10K , or marathon ), you need to be truthful with yourself about where you are and the necessary steps it will take to achieve those goals , day by day. Self – improvement takes immense commitment apart from being disciplined and determined to reach our goal.
- DECIDE TODAY AND TAKE ACTION.
- DON’T FEEL ENTITLED AND REALIZE THAT THIS WORLD DOES NOT OWE YOU. COME OUT OF VICTIM MINDSET.
- DO NOT COMPLAIN AND PUT BLAME OF EXTERNAL FACTORS. DO WHAT YOU COULD DO WITH WHAT YOU HAVE AND WHERE YOU ARE.
- YOU NEED TO WORK FOR SOMETHING TO HAVE IT AND RELISH IT FOR LONG TERM.
- THE GRIND DOES NOT STOP ONCE YOU ACHIEVE SOMETHING, RATHER YOU MIGHT HAVE TO WORK HARDER THAN BEFORE WHEN YOU REACH A POSITION.
- DO NOT INDULGE IN SELF-PITY AS IT JUST MAKES YOU LAZY AND WEAKER.
- KEEP IN MIND THAT EVERYONE AROUND YOU ARE GOING THROUGH CHALLANGES IN THEIR LIVES AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE. LIFE IS TOUGH FOR ALL OF US AND ONLY TOUGH ONES MAKE IT TO THE TOP.
- BE GRATEFUL TO WHAT YOU HAVE AND SHOW RESPECT TO THE GIFTS YOUR LIFE HAS SHOWERED YOU WITH.
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