Approach life advice not like immutable laws but rather like trying on clothes. Some advice will fit you well and flatter you. Other advice will not. Advice that may work great on one person may work terribly on the next. Pick and choose your advice to suit your personality and the occasion. Feel free to discard old advice any time it stops working for you.
What piece of life advice have you repeatedly and desperately tried to make work for yourself but it has never “felt right?”
Did you try to force that advice upon yourself? Did you blame yourself when it didn’t work?
One of the hazards of the personal development industry is that many of the people who come to it are insecure and unsure of themselves. So when they receive a piece of advice that doesn’t work for them, instead of blaming the advice, they blame themselves.
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