Just because you are in a mess because of someone else fault, does not mean that they have to fix it. If it affects you then you need to make sure that you do something about it to make your life better. By just saying that it is their fault and they have to fix it, they need to pay, they need to be punished would not solve the problem. At least it would not make you better in any sense. Take responsibility. The power of not feeling like a victim is taking responsibility. We need to get out of the victim mentality. Limiting beliefs will drown you slowly.
It is your life, your body, your mind, your family, your relationships, if something is messed up in life due to some uncontrollable person or event, do not sit and go into blame game. See how you could use that trauma and improve yourself. Try to see if you could become stronger than before.
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