Train your mind, know your mind, program you mind and run your mind as per your own agenda. If you are not training your mind, mostly the external world including your loved ones are going to train your mind as per their beliefs and agenda. And it is done unconsciously and without your knowledge.
It happens so delicately that you would not even realize that it is happening. It happens daily in various instances and it happens slowly, in minor steps incrementally. Next unconsciously without applying much thought we would be running around working for others ambitions and agenda, we believe what others believe and make us believe instead of having out our beliefs which are based on our reality. We stick to beliefs and systems which keep us where we are instead of instilling beliefs that transform us into better human. We keep woking as per the programming of society, family members, big corporations marketing, politicians, celebrities, friends.
External events and situations that are out of our control start having a big impact on your personal life as you do not have a strong belief system, standards and principles of your own. You are tragically pulled into whatever life has to offer rather than having control over your own life.
Then one day you look around and look back at your life and start analyzing why I am thinking this way which is not serving my best interests, where are these beliefs coming from which seems illogical, why am I having these values which are taking me in wrong direction, why is my attitude and behaviour not giving me the results that I deserve, why am I taking decisions and making choices that does not make sense but yet continue to do them uncontrollably, why am I doing stuff that I know is unhealthy but unable to be better, why am I stuck instead of reaching new heights in life, why am I staying in the same place instead of improving, why am I unable to keep promises that I make to myself and others, why do I keep procrastinating instead of taking action immediately, why are things not working out for me even when I give my everything etc.,
Program yourself or Be programmed. Have an agenda for yourself or run others agenda. Form beliefs that are in your best interest instead of blindly believing stuff that actually is not doing you any good.
If you stop fighting for what you want, what you don’t want will automatically take over your life.
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