If you want people to do something and take an action then motivate them through rewards and incentives but if you want people not to do something and prevent them from doing something then you need to get them with the negative consequences of punishments. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Tag: Mindset and Motivation
The negative power of negative emotions
What happens during highly emotional states especially low energy emotional states like anger, frustration, pain, embarrassment, shame, guilt, regret, punishment is that we are in a highly emotional state to fix it. So we take a snapshot in our mind for our future reference to protect ourselves from the same kind of experience. It is […]
Depression and anxiety – one way of explanation
Depression is something that makes you feel like you are hopeless about the future and you are not optimistic of your life in the long term and that is because of mainly the conclusions that you made out of the past experience Your depression is impacting the future but you are debilitated because of the […]
Be envious of what others do instead of what others have
People envy what you own and jealous of what you have in life. But they are not envious and jealous of what you did and what you do daily to have what you have in life. It is easy to feel envy of the things others own but it is not easy be envious of […]
Sacrifice for what you want before what you want becomes a sacrifice
Sacrifice for what you want before what you want becomes a sacrifice. I think humans created God for a proxy for a better future because god give faith and hope. God helps hard workers. It is always sacrifice of present for a better tomorrow. Work hard for what you want to be and have in […]
Mathew’s principle
Those who have more everything will be given and those who have less everything will be taken. That is why rich keep getting richer and poor keep getting poorer. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Be in present to be far away from depression and anxiety
Thinking too much of the past makes us feel depressed and thinking too much about future makes us feel anxious. A healthy dose using past experiences for the benefit of what you are pursuing currently allows us to feel less depressed about hurtful events in past. Taking action and doing the work you are supposed […]
Living in false reality make you miserable and vengeful
When you build your life story, your sense of self your reality, your perception of the world based on misinformation and disinformation then your way of thinking and decisions would be biased and partial. Then you would see what you want to see, you would read what you want to read, you would follow what […]
People care when you care
People don’t care how much you know until they feel and believe how much you care for the cause. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Perfectionism and procrastination
The ability to delay gratification & the willingness to wade into uncertainty are SUPERPOWERS! Perfectionism and paralysis by analysis has killed war goals than failure ever could. So many people never even start because they spend so much time over analyzing the problem, letting themselves sort through all possible solutions, and never actually start. Let […]
Beyond order – jordan Peterson
Rule 1: Do Not Carelessly Denigrate Social Instutions or Creative AchievementRule 2: Imagine Who You Could BeRule 3: Do Not Hide Unwanted Things In The FogRule 4: Notice That Opportunity Lurks Where Responsibility Has Been AbdicatedRule 5: Do Not Do What You HateRule 6: Abandon IdeologyRule 7 – Work as Hard As You Possibly Can […]
Think about your way of thinking
The knowledge about ourselves is an end in itself. Self awareness is end in itself. Knowing our patterns of thoughts and beliefs is an ended itself. Being able to self analyse and be critical about our own thinking is an end in itself. Do not expect something great when you are working consciously and taking […]
Science is to be less wrong next time
You would the worst scientist if every experiment you do is a success. The very purpose of conducting experiments is to look at various failures and come up with a better process to become less wrong next time. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Stages of forgiveness
Confess, repent, atone ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Weak men vs strong men
Weak men try to convince the world that they are not weak. Strong men do not convince the world of anything. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer