Never rely on tomorrow to do something that you love and postpone it thinking that you would do that when something else is finished today. the fact is you never see tomorrow you don’t know how tomorrow would be like and you have no control over the various external factors that could conflict and interfere […]
Tag: Mindset and Motivation
Do not have unrealistic expectations
Unspoken expectations become unresolved and premeditated resentments. Take action to achieve your expectations. Expect more of you and less of others. Expectations are fair when you take action and work on the things you have control over. You meet your expectations when you focus on controlling the controllable. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Reframing
Reframing is a powerful psychological phenomenon its powerful mental strength tool to convert the reality to our benefit.Reframing is not about denying the reality but not letting any crisis to go wasted. That means look for something that is useful and beneficial to us even when we are suffering due to a disaster. ~Praveen Jada […]
Is god all powerful and good
God is all powerful and is identified with goodness. But everything that is happening in the world is quite opposite. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Nobody apologises for how they treat you
Nobody apologises for how they treat you, but they do blame you for how you reacted to their insults and attacks. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Don’t give up critical thinking for quick solutions
We have to to be really careful and cautious about anything that stops us from thinking. We immediately fall for anything that gives immediate and instant solutions instead of applying reason and logic. We do this because we do need to take responsibility for the decisions that we make. Even though we know this fact […]
You have to become harder for the life to become easier
Life does not become easier and life is always challenging and an uphill. But when you focus on what you can control and constantly push yourself to be the best version that you could be, constantly put yourself into challenging situations and put yourself through voluntary struggle and pain everyday by exercising, eating healthy, sleeping […]
Know the history of the present day
You need to know the history of the present to design a better future . Knowing history would help you to prepare and plan for mitigating some of the mistakes and pitfalls that humanity made. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
What are you changing – Is it you or others
Whenever you are trying to make some change in your life, the basic question you need to ask is whether you are trying to change the people around you, is it the external circumstances or are you consciously trying to change yourself and what in in your control. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Stop accepting answers and start to ask questions
All cults, religious dogmatism, tribalism, groupism and casteism know how to stop you from questioning what is already existing and gospeled. They survive on the premise that you cannot question what has been answered already and what is written already. It is better to not have answers to critical questions rather than not being able […]
Your are in a complex game of life
Imagine your life is a list of complex games. You get to choose to be a player in the game or a spectator of the game. There are trade-offs whether you are a player in the game or a spectator of the game. You are a spectator in some games and a player in some […]
We generally overestimate the risk and underestimate the power of luck
We generally overestimate the risk and underestimate the power of luck. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Personality is personal reality
Your personality is your personal reality. Your personality has its own meaning and purpose. Do not define your personality with other people’s reality. Your personality is based on your beliefs, values and identity and must not be based on group thinking. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
The ruling club is very small
It is the small group of people who create conflicts between different communities, create rift between different religions and castes, who exploits the weaker and poor, who breaks rules for their benefit, who abuse the loopholes in the system, who misuse their financial status, who what problems is the society, who what distress and suffering […]
Minimize Carrying costs in life
Always remind yourself of the carrying cost in life whether you buy something or whether it is about your identity. What is the baggage you are carrying that is a burden and not helping you. What desires and requirements are good to have but not essential in life. When you are consuming something, you are […]