It is not a good idea to give permissions to do everything you crave for and react to various emotions we get. We are humans and we need some rules and standards to control ourselves without using too much of mind energy. The philosophy and standards that we define for ourselves would help us to […]
Tag: Mindset and Motivation
Why we self-sabotage new found wealth
Many people fail and fall back to their ‘comfort level’ or we can call the level of ‘familiarity’ when their fame or money does not match their mindset or self-awareness or skillset. When people do not go through the grueling journey on their way to success, they would not develop that anti-fragile nature to be […]
Peace of mind vs happiness
You get peace of mind when you are aligned with your values, when you stick to your decisions, when you are disciplined, when you are committed, if you are working on your passion purpose in life. Running towards piece of mind may not always give you happiness in all situations. If you stick to your […]
You time as ‘no-body’ matters and builds strength
The process of being ‘nobody’ at the thing that there pursuing is the phase where they build the strength. The ability to remain invisible in spite of one’s best efforts is a superpower. This journey of becoming ‘some-one’ from ‘no-one’ plays a key role in developing that mental and emotional nerve to remain stable and […]
Expect harder hills to climb once you are done with one
Success and happiness in life depends on continuous improvement and progress. Once you achieve something in life, you will realize you are about you face bigger challenges that come as part of that achievement. And it is supposed to be that way. It is like you take great efforts to climb up a steep mountain […]
Fulfilment and real satisfaction
Fulfilment and real satisfaction comes by being gracious, kind and magnanimous during happy times and and ability to be strong and responsible during grief and misery. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
Colours that may help you during tough negotiations
Wear them or add them as background tone in your presentations or add them to wall or wallpapers or any others way to gain some edge to your endeavors.
Cialdini’s 6 Principles of Influence
Cialdini’s 6 Principles of Influence are ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
Do things that gives you energy and you can give energy to
~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
Do what works for you instead of following the masses
What’s useful to you is more important than what’s true. Everyone is different. What may not work for 90% of the people may work for you. So be a seeker and try stuff. Do not just assume things on their face value. Take calculated risks with small steps. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
Some tips to to create an armour around you
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We all suffer in life and accepting this fact itself is a suffering
Life is suffering and accepting the fact that life is a suffering is in itself is a suffering. So choose your suffering instead of life giving throwing hard stuff at you. When you choose your suffering to be antifragile and adaptable, you would be stronger to face the inevitable struggles you face in life. Life […]
Teach kids to be resourceful and grateful
As Margaret Thatcher said “the best thing that could happen to a kid is to be born to a set of good parents with no money”. Parenting is different from giving birth to children. Parenting may be the most difficult thing that parents could do if they choose to do it with a purpose. We […]
Intrinsic motivation revolves around three elements
Intrinsic motivation revolves around three elements: autonomy, mastery and purpose. Autonomy: the urge to direct our own lives. Having a sense of control and power over our lives. Mastery: the desire to get better and keep getting better at something that matters. Purpose: the yearning to do what we do in the service of something […]
People change only if they want to, so just wish them well and leave
Sometimes it is hard to sit and watch people going down the wrong path. Almost all the times people would have to experience the consequences of their decisions to reform themselves. I have to agree that it is extremely painful to see stuff happening in front of our eyes and unable to wake up the […]