There are things that you are supposed to do but not doing and there are things that you supposedly love to do but you are not doing. If you miss to do and handle these two categories in your life then it is a sure shot way of leading your life that is desperate, that […]
Tag: Mindset and Motivation
Exchanging what works with what sounds good is a bad idea
In past few years especially with accessibility to internet and advent of social media we lost our ability to wait for results and want instant pleasure. Our patience and attention span has reduced. What is long lasting, what gives you delight and peace of mind, what give your real satisfaction in the long run has […]
Some valuable thoughts from well meaning people
Values equals what do you spend your time now and what do you spend your money on. Sleep is a discipline. It has been proven in numerous studies that lack of sleep hampers your ability to think well. You take impulsive decisions which are most probably not best for you or others. Discipline is about […]
Do not take ignore or suppress a problem
Anything that is suppressed or ignored or neglected for a long time gets metastasized , frows, mutates and and explodes at some point and that situation would not be a good place to be in . Weather for you or for the people on you. ~Praveen Jada *Do read the Disclaimer
State of our health care system
Our healthcare system is interested in quick fixes and and modern drugs/medicines gives patients instant relief from the pain and trauma .Healthcare and food industry capitalizes on our evolutionary psychological instincts like seeking instant pleasure our delayed gratification, avoiding pain and struggle, conserving energy instead of putting in effort, our impulse to survive by predicting […]
The man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination
Always choose to be in the process and pursue an infinite goal which cannot be achieved in this lifetime. An infinite mindset always trumps a finite mindset. Having a goal and achieving it is finite. It gives you instant pleasure when you win something. If the process of achieving something is a goal, then there […]
Double-think is a powerful marketing strategy
Duble think – having two opposing beliefs and believing both are true. Believing in lies knowing that they are false. This double think strategy is used my many corporates and media for marketing their products or sell an ideology to common people. Example are like,i need to be wealthy to be happyi need likes on […]
Talk about your dreams and passion more often than not
When someone asked what is your plan, we immediately answer our plans for the day or next day or what we do on weekend or like where we are going with family, how we are going to spend our time doing different activities in the immediate future. These are all fine and all of us […]
God gives us opportunities to become who we are supposed to become – only if we recognize
God is loveGod is justiceGod is nothing but hope and faith Deriving meaning out of tragedy is difficult, but if one has faith then everything that happens to us can be meaningful. Life happens FOR us only if we see meaning in it. Life happens TO us if we don’t assign a meaning to it. […]
You gain confidence when you do things that you cannot do
Courage comes before confidence. Courage is feeling the fear and moving ahead. Courage is continuing to step ahead in spite of fear. When you face the fear and overcome it, you build courage. Courage gives you confidence to take on new ventures. You gain confidence only when you do things you know that you cannot […]
Easy come easy go
If you got it easy and quickly, you would not value it, reason why lottery winner or many sportspersons or some movie stars or some people who become famous and rich very quickly without real reason mostly go broke.Anything stays with you only when you value it, you maintain it. You will be grounded when […]
Impose controlled pain to handle uncontrollables in life
I train and workout so hard not to have the best physique or win some championships or look better or gain respect or have followers. I train and impose controlled pain and suffering every single day of my life so that my body and brain is prepared for unexpected events which that would shake me […]
It is your responsibility to take care of yourself
If the house is on fire, don’t sit in the fire and think about who started the fire. It is your responsibility to get out of the house and then later you can investegate who is responsible. Everyone is so hell bent and concerned about the industry, food industry, healthcare industry, drugs, alcohol and other […]
How to forgive our heaters and let go of their comments
Recall that they don’t know me and my fair intentions .They cant understand what I am doing.When I am growing and becoming someone different, they feel threatened so they try to hurt me and stop me.They become anxious because i am raising my standards and that might remind them of their failures and insecurities. Hence […]
Start any self-development activity with this attitude
Now write down what are are self-care activities that you would commit when above mentioned things happen to you. Anyone can stick to a routine and schedule when all is well in life. But what matters is how you behave when things are not great. How you handle challenges and difficult situations in your life […]