The pursuit of unattainable goals can be a powerful motivator, driving innovation and pushing boundaries. However, it’s true that this pursuit can sometimes lead individuals down questionable paths. Here’s why: It’s important to maintain a balanced perspective when pursuing ambitious goals. While it’s essential to be driven and determined, it’s equally important to: ~Praveen Jada […]
Tag: Mindset and Motivation
Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world
According to Arthur Schopenhauer, “Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world,” which essentially means that each person perceives life based on their own subjective experience, mistaking this limited perspective for the whole reality. Arthur Schopenhauer’s profound observation, “Every man takes the limits of his own […]
Common regrets people often express when facing their mortality
This is a deeply personal question, and the answer will vary greatly from person to person. However, here are a few common regrets people often express when facing their mortality: Ultimately, the biggest regrets often stem from a life lived in fear, inaction, and a failure to truly embrace the present moment. If I were […]
Schrodinger’s cat and nature of life
Schrodinger’s thought experiment probed how this plays out when a quantum object is coupled to something more familiar. He imagined a box containing a radioactive atom, a vial of poison and a cat. Governed by quantum rules, the radioactive atom can either decay or not at any given moment. There’s no telling when the moment […]
Scarcity mindset and FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out)
Scarcity mindset and fear of missing out may make you feel like you always lack something in life and you are desperate to add something. You feel like you are missing out on something even though you have everything. By constantly relying on instant pleasure and immediate relief, you think that you will be happy […]
The “One-Size-Fits-All” Dilemma
We are living in a society where we feel that in the mountain climbers or better than the valley crosses and decide that one thing is better than the other thing. It’s true that a “one-size-fits-all” approach often falls short of addressing the diverse needs and circumstances of individuals. We frequently encounter situations where well-intentioned […]
Focusing on victim benefits can be more beneficial
While punishment of the perpetrator can provide a sense of justice and closure for some victims, it doesn’t always address the immediate needs and long-term consequences of trauma. Here are some reasons why focusing on victim benefits can be more beneficial: Direct Impact on Healing: Prevention of Future Harm: It’s important to note that these […]
Valuing and respecting all forms of labor
The devaluation of certain jobs is a significant issue that undermines the dignity of labor. It’s unfortunate that some professions are seen as a last resort for those who have “failed” in other areas. This perspective not only disregards the value and contribution of these jobs but also perpetuates harmful stereotypes and social inequalities. Here […]
Happiness Equals Expectations Minus Reality
The expression “Happiness equals Expectations minus Reality” suggests that the gap between what we anticipate and what actually happens significantly influences our level of happiness. Here’s a breakdown of the formula: Key Implications: Mindful Expectations: Being aware of our expectations and adjusting them to be more realistic can help prevent disappointment and foster contentment.Positive Mindset: […]
Our remedies are worse than the diseases
We are living in a society where the remedies are worse than the diseases. We cannot use the same yardstick to treat all people. Overzealous Solutions: Sometimes, solutions to problems can be overly aggressive or restrictive, leading to more harm than good. For example, strict regulations on businesses might stifle innovation and job growth, or […]
The Kübler-Ross grief cycle
The Kübler-Ross grief cycle, also known as the five stages of grief, is a framework developed by psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross to describe the emotional stages people go through when facing significant loss. While originally applied to the process of dying, it has since been adapted to encompass a wide range of losses, including the death […]
CARS method for resolving conflicts
CARS method for resolving conflicts.• Connecting• Analysing• Responding• Setting limits Respond with BIF• Brief• Informative• Firm and friendly Accountability with SLIC ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer
Limited Options vs Overwhelming Choices
Depression may be a result of not having options in hand. Anxiety may be a result of having too many options in hand. Depression and Limited Options: Anxiety and Overwhelming Choices: However, it’s important to note that these are just potential contributing factors, and depression and anxiety are complex conditions with various underlying causes. Other […]
Less choice leads to quality decisions
Less Choice, Better Decisions: The Burden of More: The Power of Needs vs. Desires: In essence, the key to a fulfilling life lies in simplicity, gratitude, and a focus on what truly matters. By embracing minimalism and prioritizing our needs over desires, we can experience greater peace, contentment, and overall well-being. ~Praveen Jada Do read […]
Religion binds and blinds. Morality binds and blinds.
Religion binds and blinds. Morality binds and blinds. Religion is required for bringing together a group of people living with a common principle, rules, ethics, morals working for or towards a common goals. It’s true that both religion and morality can have a binding and blinding effect. They can create a sense of belonging and […]