You will see what you want to see in this world. You will become exactly that person that you think of yourself. You will not get what you don’t want in life. You will unconsciously do everything possible to remain far from what you don’t want. This is true for both healthy and unhealthy things in life. If you don’t want something and don’t value something, you will push it away from it. Be careful of what you practice daily and narratives that you say in your mind.
The world reveal itself based on your perception of the world. You view the world through your narrow view of understanding of the world. Be careful what you follow , what you watch, what you listen, what you read and who are your role models because they have a significant impact on you subconscious mind. What you watch, listen, read, impacts the way you think, feel, behave and choices you make.
Be aware of what your sole is made of. Sole is something that you own based on which the world reveals and responds to you.
Many people talk themselves into problems. They do activities that make them suffer but unfortunate thing is that the same people would not take responsibility for the consequences of their decisions. They put the complete blame on external factors and other people and complaint that everything happened because of everything else apart from themselves.
People who do not want to do the real work for their betterment would search for all the evidence to not to do the work and talk themselves out of taking good decisions. They soak themselves in self-pity and stay in comfort zone even though it is painful. They learn helplessness and become hopeless of the any better possibility in life. They choose to be victims of circumstances and slave to their emotions. They reject the fact everything improves only if we improve ourselves and put in the real work. This becomes a self-fulling prophecy and feedback loop in itself. When they continue with this attitude long enough, it becomes inseparable part of their psyche. They will not even be aware that they are indulging in self-destructive behaviour.
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