Life is suffering and accepting the fact that life is a suffering is in itself is a suffering. So choose your suffering instead of life giving throwing hard stuff at you. When you choose your suffering to be antifragile and adaptable, you would be stronger to face the inevitable struggles you face in life.
Life is going to be difficult no matter who you are, where you are, how privileged you are, where you are born in which country. If you prevent struggle that your children would go through then they are going to find struggle for themselves and most probably they are going to create unnecessary struggles for themselves that are useless that are purposeless and wouldn’t solve anything for them. Then they would struggle to even handle normal stuff that is not even a struggle in first place.
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