One of the most embarrassing shameful and guilt inducing feeling that we could experience is to watch someone do something that you said to yourself is not possible and you couldn’t do it or you don’t want to do it.
What we generally do when we feel jealous of someone who is pursuing their dreams and refuting our limiting beliefs, we immediately get into victim mentality and complain about various factors that are stopping us from doing stuff. Instead of taking responsibility we start to put blame on others for spoiling our dreams and denying what we want in our lives. We also shame others achievements, we dismiss their hard-work and dedications, we reject their life by saying we do not want it. It is generally easier to criticize and ignore others than to work on ourselves.
When we say these words inside our heads for multiple number of times and keep repeating them whenever we find ourselves guilty for not doing what we supposed to do then this becomes a habit. We start identifying ourselves as victim and believe that we do not have what it takes to follow our passions. We start to believe that we are not enough and we do not deserve better things in life. We start to self-deny greatness in our life. We identify ourselves as not worthy of having great life that we want to have. When we speak in think language it disempowers you and strips yourself of creativity.
So stop above non-sense and speak to yourself in empowering language. You can do whatever you want right now. You can start now brick by brick and step by step. If you are in any trouble or negative phase in your life, you need to ask a lot of ‘HOW’ questions. The only way to think differently is to keep asking and continue with your efforts is thinking in possibility language. These solutions start with ‘How’ question.
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