You have to become harder for the life to become easier

Life does not become easier and life is always challenging and an uphill. But when you focus on what you can control and constantly push yourself to be the best version that you could be, constantly put yourself into challenging situations and put yourself through voluntary struggle and pain everyday by exercising, eating healthy, sleeping on time, planning time for family and taking care of yourself then you become stronger and capable to deal with the inevitable challenges and uncertainties in life. In this process life did not become easier by you acquired the skillset and adopted to deal with life more efficiently.

It is similar to you going to the gym and lifting a 10 kg dumbell and finding it difficult a lift on the first day. The same weight after 6 months would become lighter and easier for you to lift. This does not mean that the 10 kg dumbbell has lost its weight but you trained your body and became stronger.

~Praveen Jada

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