Author: Praveen Jada

Marshall Rosenberg, the developer of Nonviolent Communication, said, “Every criticism, judgment, diagnosis, and expression of anger is the tragic expression of an unmet need”. For example, when someone criticizes a partner, they may be expressing an unmet need or desire. It could be a way of asking for something, but it may result in the […]

Denial of the reward makes something addictive like denial of the reward makes games addictive. Denial and restriction of the addictive substances like drugs make them to be wanting more and crave more. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer

Do not seek respect from the job position but do something so that that the job position gets respect because of you. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer

Snakes can bite venom into your body but they cannot suck the venom out of your body. Similarly there are a lot of things we as humans can do to others that could do irreversible damage and cannot be repaired. Physical hurt heals over time. Mental wounds linger for life-time. One cannot control what others […]

Having stuff is not fun but getting stuff is fun.

Shame, embarrassment, regret, being disappointed with oneself, not being honest and unable to keep up the promises that you made creates a storm of stress in the brain which is painful and miserable. Our brain don’t want to live and stay in this guilty condition so in order to feel better and feel happier in […]

Do not over-estimate the competition and underestimate yourself. If you are feeling insecure, scared, anxiety, nervous and unsure may be all others are also having similar feelings. ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer

The clustering illusion occurs when people incorrectly perceive random events as having meaningful patterns. This cognitive bias stems from the brain’s propensity to search for regularities and correlations, which can be advantageous in environments where actual patterns exist. However, in random sequences, this tendency leads to the erroneous detection of clusters. Financial Decisions: Investors might […]

If you want to do ‘it’ –What is going to stop you from doing it?NOTHING If you don’t want to do ‘it’ –What is going to stop you from doing it?EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING ~Praveen Jada Do read the Disclaimer

We all make many of judgments every day. Our decision making and assessments are not based on any hard and fast rules. Most of them are instinctive based on some subconscious triggers. Researchers at Harvard University conducted an experiment asking participants to identify “Blue” Dots from a series of a thousand Dots ranging in colour […]

When you are depressed you may do many things to make you feel better and happy but they would improve your depressive tendencies . Actually the things that you are scared of and unwilling to do are the ones that may help you in getting better and healthy, but you don’t do them. So you […]

Taking hard and right decisions age like a fine classic wine because they might be unpopular and outcasted in the moment but in the long run they are the ones that are valued and adored in the long run. Easy and popular decisions that gives immediate pleasure may look good at the moment but may […]

Hopeless optimism may not always give you the right results and most probably you may be disappointed and heartbroken. Because when you feel hopeless, you rely more on others and external factors to take care of your satiation. You may also believe that you have no personal agency. So, you do not invest time in […]

Don’t think all the poverty, ill-health, difficulties, trauma in life are due to laziness and bad decisions. Don’t think that all richness and great lifestyle are due to hard work and discipline. One must not measure ones worth by the properties they own or the job they are doing or the salary they are earning. […]

Whenever there is a new discovery in any field by humanity, it is human nature to first identify benefits and market it. In due course of time when more and more people use it, we start to see the other side of the invention which are the disadvantages and the side effects. It is moral […]